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It’s been really bugging me but I’m seeing a lot of my tiktok page with straight men calling their girlfriends “pillow princesses”. Correct me if I’m wrong, but is that not an exclusive term for lesbian women?
Can you use the term “pillow princess” on straight people? PepperedDemons 2025
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Pillow Princess: A common term amongst lesbian circles and queer women, pillow princesses are a type of bottom who don’t reciprocate some or all sexual acts. Pillow princesses are usually femme (though not always), often lesbian, and range from sweet to bratty and everywhere in between. Many self-identify as a pillow princess, but it is also sometimes used as a pejorative. Always use caution when referring to someone else as a pillow princess and make sure it’s OK with them first.
What Is a Pillow Princess? Everything You Need to Know About Queer Stone Identities Sara Youngblood Gregory 2024
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“A pillow princess is someone who exclusively wants to be the receiving partner in sexual activity,” Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz, psychologist, lesbian relationship coach and co-founder of Conscious Girlfriend, puts it bluntly.
'Pillow Princess': Legit Sexuality Or Harmful Stereotype? Gina Tonic 2024
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